So what?  Nothing is different.

This information did not change who he’s been his whole life.   He is still the same child you cuddled, nuzzled, and fawned over as a baby.   She is still the same child you promised to love and protect.                                                                                                               Her goals and dreams are the same.  You must not change your behavior towards your child.   You may be struggling with the proclamation, but you must not skip a beat as a loving parent.  This is the most important time to be controlled and supportive. As hard it was for you, it was twice as difficult for your child who has worried about your reaction.  It is more important than ever to make sure you validate who he or she is.  It’s your job to be sure this child is secure.

Your beliefs are based on Christian faith?  So are mine.  I believe that as a Christian, I’m suppose to love, not judge.  There is no greater love than a parent for a child, and the return love a child feels for the parent when he or she’s accepted.

Remember, you’re preparing your child for the world.  The security he or she feels must come from you.  And bullying?  It’s much easier to weather the outside forces when it’s safe and secure at home.